Hi there, this is Ryu.
Did you know that we have multiple interviewing area in Tokyo?
I was at the Ginza branch the other day.
When I was there I was talking with one of the Japanese staff and there was something I realized.
The international gentlemen is sooooooooo good to the females we never hear bad feedback that much.
So today I wanted to talk about difference of how Japanese guys and Foreigner guys treat woman.
Japanese Guys
I know it is the cultural difference but sometimes they surprise me.
They tend to like being pleased by the girls.
Want to be treated like a king.
But the thing I don’t understand is they are seeing another human being too.
But in the other hand there is some girls that likes to be dominated too so it is hard to say.
Japanese girls have the reputation long ago of standing few steps behind the alpha for support. The female back then used to put themselves second and the guys first.
That was the Samurai days tho…
Foreigner guys
For the guys from other country it is the other way around.
Like America “Lady’s First” is the basic rule of treating a woman.
I did grow up in that mentality too tho.
So sometimes it surprises me seeing some family where the grumpy dad is around and other family just follows after.
It is 2018 and the new era so I think everyone should be treated equal.
Finally…
OK, to be Honest the human nature guys goes after the female is normal.
Just don’t be a beast and just be gentle and everything should work all right.