We are always grateful to our members who have always followed our rules and ensured not only the safety of the ladies they meet but also the reputation of Universe Club as a safe and reliable dating club.
However, we regret to say that there have been complaints from ladies in recent weeks with regard to sexual behavior and etiquette.
As the International branch of Universe Club, we are often the only bridge between foreign male members and Japanese female members, and even some ladies’ first real interaction with foreigners.
Bad behavior not only reflects poorly on Universe Club International, leading to ladies refusing to meet any foreign members at all but can even jeopardize your membership with Universe Club.
Of course, this does not mean that Universe Club can guarantee that sexual activity will occur even if you are on your best behavior and follow every rule to the letter.
A lady has every right to decline a relationship for any reason, and should never be pressured into sexual activity.
Therefore, we would like to present some tips and advice to ensure a safe, respectful, and enjoyable experience for you and your partner.
Universe Police
As part of providing a safe service, we have established “Universe Police” and will enforce all rules, including any regarding non-consensual sexual activity.
Communication
The key to good sex is open and honest communication.
Talk to your partner about your desires, boundaries, and limits. Ask for their consent before engaging in any sexual act, and respect their decisions.
Good communication also means using clear, understandable language and being attentive to your partner’s physical and emotional reactions.
Even if you and your partner are not mutually fluent in the same language, the use of translation apps and simple, universally understood words (OK, yes, no) will certainly help communication.
Consent
Consent is the foundation of all sexual encounters. It means both parties freely and enthusiastically agree to engage in a sexual act.
If your partner looks visibly afraid, hesitant, and reluctant, and/or only agrees after being asked multiple times, it does not constitute true enthusiastic consent.
Consent must be obtained before any sexual act, including having sex without condoms. Given consent can also be withdrawn at any time.
Always check on your partner and ensure that they feel comfortable before, during, and after sexual activity.
If you are unsure if your partner has given proper consent, ask!
Respect
1. Respect your partner’s body, mind, and feelings.
2. Do not engage in any sexual act that they do not want or are uncomfortable with.
3. Do not pressure or coerce them into doing anything they do not want.
4. Respect their privacy and keep any information about your sexual encounters confidential.
Safe Sex
Always use protection, such as condoms or dental dams, to prevent sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unintended pregnancy.
Use a new condom for each sexual act, and ensure it is correctly placed and used.
To ensure peace of mind, open and place the condom in view of the lady so she knows it has not been tampered with.
Hygiene
Good hygiene is vital for sexual health and comfort.
Shower regularly, trim your nails, brush your teeth, and wear clean clothing.
If you are engaging in oral sex, use dental dams or condoms to protect against STIs.
Aftercare
1. After a sexual encounter, take some time to check with your partner and make sure that they are feeling okay.
2. Offer some quiet time together.
3. Communicate any concerns or feelings, and be there for your partner if they need to talk.
Sex etiquette is about treating your partner with respect, dignity, and care.
By following these basic, common sense principles, you can ensure that your sexual encounters are safe and enjoyable, avoiding unnecessary issues affecting your partner and your membership.
