Hi! Everyone!
Let me briefly introduce myself!
I’m Yuko from the International division.
It has been one year since I joined Universe Club(UC), and I was quite new to what sugar dating was all about when I joined.
That’s because I was previously working as a foreign VIP attendant, and I was surrounded by many rich men. And I used to party and travel together with them and receive tips, so, I didn’t feel the need to look for a Sugar Daddy. (Of course, I had no intimate relationships with them.)
When I joined UC, I learned what dating club was like and I was honestly surprised by the fact that many women were seeking to meet a rich man.
I had never used sugar dating apps, so I registered right away in order to experience and understand female members’ point of view. (I won’t mention the app’s name.)
Now, I’m going to share my very first sugar dating app experience was like!
Person: Mr. L from Hongkong
Occupation: Banker
After a short introduction to each other on the app, we released the private photos posted on the site.
Since sending messages on the app was troublesome to him, he wanted to chat with me on WhatsApp, so I gave him my number and we started communicating via WhatsApp.
As soon as we started chatting, he started asking me so many inappropriate questions as following.
“What is your occupation and last name?”
“Where do you live in Tokyo?”
“How many men have you ever had sex with? bf or non-bf?”
“I would like you to travel to Hong Kong or anywhere that we can meet and have fun”
Furthermore, he even made strong requests such as “Can you do ○○ and ○○ in bed?
I want to do ○○ etc…”
I was quite shocked and told him that I was not a prostitute.
Then he was like, “Tell me what you can do and how much you want, and I’ll accept it if it makes sense”.
So I asked, “What kind of relationship are you looking for?” and he replied,
“A partner (girlfriend)who loves sex”.
??? Why is he looking for a girlfriend on a sugar dating site and asking me these questions???
And he asked me the same question, so I replied, “I’m looking for a Sugar Daddy (Financial support)”.
Mr. L: “What can you provide me in return?”
Me: “Depends on the case. But if the feeling is not mutual, there will be no intimacy on the first meeting.”
Mr. L: “I don’t think I want a sugar baby who’s not gonna have sex”
Me: “I’m not saying that I won’t, I would like to get to know you first”
Mr. L: “OK, then come to Hong Kong”
Me: “Will you pay all the travel expenses?”
Mr. L: “Yes”
Mr. L: “Is it possible to do ○○ and ○○ in bed?”
He asked me again, so I sort of dodged his questions.
Then I got confused during the conversation about what I was negotiating for, so to be on the safer side, I asked him to come to Tokyo instead.
Mr. L: “Then will you have sex?”
Me: “I am not a prostitute so I can not promise … It’s not that I don’t want to do though…”
Mr. L: “You kinda mind f**k me with your words. I won’t make efforts to fly myself or fly me over”
Me: “Ok”
The conversation ended.
Two months later. . .
Suddenly Mr. L reached out to me.
That’s because I opened the app while traveling in Hong Kong, so he found out that I was there.
(Why is he constantly checking my profile, anyway?…)
He wanted to meet me but I couldn’t as I was traveling with my friends and couldn’t leave them just to meet him.
Sending text messages back and forth continued for a while …
Then I returned to Japan, and he started the price negotiating and I presented ○000USD.
Mr. L: “○00USD”
Me: “Good-bye”
Mr. L: “○00USD”
Me: “I get ○000 USD to have dinner and party” (Such a thing actually happened in the past)
And his requests in bed and price negotiations continued …
Of course, I refused his request.
Mr. L: “Will you have sex?”
Me: “I am not a prostitute so I can not promise … It’s not that I don’t want to do though…”
Mr. L: “You kinda mind f**k me with your words. I won’t make efforts to fly myself or fly me over”
Me: “Ok”
The conversation ended.
Two months later. . .
Suddenly Mr. L reached out to me.
That’s because I opened the app while traveling in Hong Kong, so he found out that I was there.
(Why is he constantly checking my profile, anyway?)
He wanted to meet me but I couldn’t as I was traveling with my friends and couldn’t leave them.
The conversation of meeting or not meeting him continued for a while …
Then I returned to Japan, and he started the price negotiating and I presented ○000USD.
Mr. L: “○00USD”
Me: “Good-bye”
Mr. L: “○00USD”
Me: “I get ○000 USD to have dinner and party” (Such a thing actually happened in the past)
And his demands in bed and price negotiations continued …
Of course, I refused his request.
Finally, negotiations were concluded by me going to Hong Kong for ○○00 USD (excluding travel expenses), but it didn’t happen because our schedules did not match up. . .
Ever since then, I lost touch with Mr. L.
And that was pretty much all about my first experience of sugar dating app.
My impression after the experience:
・ I believe that Mr. L isn’t a bad person, but if he is looking for a girlfriend, he shouldn’t start a conversation with a crazy approach, to begin with.
I felt pity for him. (Because he ended up nothing but a pervert….)
・ I was disgusted that I received very inappropriate requests on my very first shot after registering on the sugar dating site.
・ It’s not that I’m promoting UC, but I’ve realized that the dating club is a lot safer than dating sites because we screen male and female to check if they have good behavior toward one another.
(That doesn’t mean there is no trouble at all though)
・ Since I was a complete beginner to this, I was unable to negotiate the price well.
↑ This is quite the point that female members are having trouble with.
My first arrangement did not happen this time, but I would like to try more and write more about it from now on.
So stay tuned for my next episode!
Thanks for reading! 🙂
Yuko Matsui
